Have you ever caught yourself saying that you are tempted to do something? Be honest! Even if you have not said it I know you have thought it. Temptation is that tug at the sensual side we have. It can be unique to each of us but it can be very general to all of us (James 1:14, 1 Corinthians 10:13).
Some temptations are obvious while some have the tendency to sneak up on us. Some we see coming and others catch us by surprise. Some we know to stay away from and some refuse to stay away from us. I cannot say for certainty what tempts you personally, but I can with reasonable certainty think of something that tempts us all to one extent or another. Something God’s word talks about.
Giving into the temptation of getting even can be easy to do. Sometimes the temptation is to get even publicly because of embarrassment or sometimes privately because of pride. Sometimes we even want to get even on the behalf of others such as friends and family members. When we think “I’ll show them” we usually end up just showing our self!
Not retaliating takes spiritual discipline. A difficult discipline! A discipline we are called to emulate after the example of Jesus (1 Peter 2:17-23). Getting even goes beyond physical or even verbal retaliation; it can extend to the withholding of something that we have from someone who is in need.
“Repay no one evil for evil. Have regard for good things in the sight of all men. If it is possible, as much as depends on you, live peaceably with all men. Beloved, do not avenge yourselves, but rather give place to wrath; for it is written, “Vengeance is Mine, I will repay,”says the Lord. Therefore “If your enemy is hungry, feed him; If he is thirsty, give him a drink; For in so doing you will heap coals of fire on his head.”Do not be overcome by evil, but overcome evil with good.” (Romans 12:17-21)
Let us all be able to say that we are tempted to let it go…and actually mean it. EA